Writing is Hard

So here’s a sketch of what I think it means to be a woman this year💕

Out of the Rut

From: Maria Manza Date: Tue, Jul 10, 2018 at 10:47 PM Subject: To: ———- <——–@—–> Hey sis – It was so, so good spending time with you this weekend and talking to you tonight. You are one of my most trusted thought partners, and I’m so grateful that we’re able to be sounding boards for…

The World Made New

From: Courtney Skiles To: ——- Date: June 27, 2018 ——-, I’ve been thinking about your suggestion that we go to the border [to work with the children separated from their parents and being held at a Texas facility], and found a good opportunity.  I submitted my information to the team, and they said they would…

Foreign, Familiar & Mr. Rogers

To: ——- From: Maria Manza Date: Fri, Jun 8, 2018 Hey sis – A few Sundays ago I went to a dance performance (co-produced by the fab Kate Wallich!!) that made me think of you. I watched the five figures navigate space: toes came within millimeters of cheekbones, knees brushed by earlobes. At times, the…

Your Sister / Boss Advice

To: — From: Courtney Skiles Date: May 29, 2018 Hey Sis, Thank you for taking some time to walk and talk today.  I feel like I have so much on my plate right now – especially as I open the doors to my [immigration law] practice.  Your advice (as sister and more experienced entrepreneur) to look inward and…

Two Months Later…Can Marriage Be Feminist?

To: Jules & Jo From: Marie 19 April 09:35 Alright team. I finally mustered up enough courage to sit with a computer beyond the scope of my work and engage in discussion with some of my fave humans. Sorry it has taken me two whole months. It’s unacceptable. The shade has been felt and you…

Can marriage really be feminist?

To: Julia & Marie From: Jo Tuesday, 20 March, 17:43 Ugh. So what does it say about Marie and me that it has taken over a month for us to respond to this message? Hahaha. You are so right that we would NOT have even opened the email if you wrote the theme in the…

Can marriage be feminist?

This has long been a question of interest for me and probably the reason that I am pushing mid-thirties as a happily unmarried, independent woman. Naturally, this is not without societal judgment or questions from relatives, but I certainly advocate for women of any age to consider this question more. In this three-part series, femails.org…

The Reframe

From: Maria M. <xxxxxxx@gmail.com> Date: Thu, Mar 29, 2018 at 10:20 PM Subject: The Reframe To: xxxxxxx<xxxxxxxxxxx@gmail.com> Dear ——–, This year has me thinking about home and legacy. Is this an early 30’s thing? Buying a home has never been a pressing priority for me, but this is the first year where I’ve felt pangs of something,…